Websites such as Myspace and Facebook have completely changed the way people interract. There are so many users on social networking sites, especially for college age individuals, that an entirely new social dynamic is created. Although most support this type of website, there are concerns that come with it. In “Facebook’s Privacy Trainwreck,” Danah Boyd discusses how Facebook’s News Feed threatens privacy. The news feed has its advantages, as it allows you to feel a sense of closeness to others, but it is also unsettling to think that every single online friend can see your updates. Thus, the debate ensues whether maintaining an “ambient intamacy,” as Clive Thompson put it, is worth an infringement on privacy. As a recent Facebook user, I never had to deal with the crossover to the News Feed. As a result, my behavior was shaped by the News Feed. There are just certain things that I don’t allow on Facebook, and I am able to control my information enough that people don’t see information about me that I don’t want them to. So, I would support the news feed because it maintains friendships in a way.
Some would argue that the “closeness” that sites like Facebook provide is artificial, and actually makes people less close. In the Thompson piece, he brought up the example of the woman who said that because she can see what her friends are doing online, she doesn’t actually go visit. Also, it is common for Facebook users to have hundreds of friends. Add in a Myspace and a twitter page, and that could be over a thousand online contacts. Thompson questioned whether or not it was possible to actively be friends with that amount of people. I would argue that it is possible, but it is also damaging to have them all grouped together in one place. This is because itmakes the divide between closer friends and not as close friends much more blatant. If you know someone from real life but they are not that close of a friend, you still have a context that you know them through. For example, Sam is a bagger at the grocery store that I talk to when I shop. In an every day situation this type of interraction would seem valuable, but if Sam is also a Facebook friend, he looks far less important compared to your other friends.
This division was essentially sponsored by Myspace’s Top 8. I know friendships that have ended because of the Top 8. The concept of evaluating friendships is built into social networking sites, but placing a value on friendships can only be damaging. Although social networking sites are a nice tool to have, they devalue relationships.